Friends can be lovers but lovers can’t be friends?
Sometimes love grows from friendship, it is when two people had found to each other the friendship they need. They share each others problems, dreams and interest, helping each other in times of trials and problems and make teach other to laugh or smile. Until time passed by they realized that what they feel isn’t friendship anymore. They decided to put their friendship to the next level. They became lovers. But some things didn’t work quite well. They decided to end it up. Now the question is will they go back from being friends again or will they forget each other completely?
They say: friends can be lovers, but lovers can’t be friends? Some other say “why cant they be?” its really hard to decide whether they cant or they can be but I think its really on the personal choice of the person, will he/she still be a friend or will just let go.?
If you will ask me on what will I chose, I would choose to still be a friend for the person I love. You can call me crazy or stupid but I have my reasons. You might ask me “why?” the answer is simple it is because I love him! Whether I love him as a friend or I love him differently it all comes back to that simple answer. Maybe it has no sense at all but for me it has, for friendship is a special kind of love.
You might think that I’m finding it as easy as ABC but its not. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress just thinking what I will do, will I still be a friend for him or I should forget him. Whatever choice I will make have a consequence, if I choose to be a friend for him, I will only be hurt and continually waiting and hoping but if I choose to let go or forget him, am I ready to bear the pain of not seeing him? Both decisions and choices will just only end up with me being hurt, but I realized that I’m so selfish to think o only of my self and not to think of what will he feels. What if he still needs me as a friend, will I turn my back on him? So I decided that, ok we will go back being friends again and it means I will be hurt but I said to my self it will fade away. I also said to my self that true friends never leave each other side. You can call me a fool but if I’m going to call myself, I’m just a friend. You might question me why do I choose it? Its because I love him and love doesn’t require to much answers you just love no matter how stupid you become, quite unfair but life is unfair love is unfair, we cant make it fair how much we wanted to, so just lived the unfair reality.
I also understand those people who would rather choose to totally forget the person they loved because that person may even hurt them more. Some relations doesn’t end well, and its getting hard for them to be friends again especially when they’ve experienced so much pain when they still together. There are people who just don’t want to hope and be continuously hurt so they just turn their back and let go.
Therefore, it is on our own hands to decide and whether decision we make, we should be ready for the consequences and we should never had regrets. Choose what will make you happy. Just listen to what you’re heart saying, and everything will fall to its proper place.
Sometimes love grows from friendship, it is when two people had found to each other the friendship they need. They share each others problems, dreams and interest, helping each other in times of trials and problems and make teach other to laugh or smile. Until time passed by they realized that what they feel isn’t friendship anymore. They decided to put their friendship to the next level. They became lovers. But some things didn’t work quite well. They decided to end it up. Now the question is will they go back from being friends again or will they forget each other completely?
They say: friends can be lovers, but lovers can’t be friends? Some other say “why cant they be?” its really hard to decide whether they cant or they can be but I think its really on the personal choice of the person, will he/she still be a friend or will just let go.?
If you will ask me on what will I chose, I would choose to still be a friend for the person I love. You can call me crazy or stupid but I have my reasons. You might ask me “why?” the answer is simple it is because I love him! Whether I love him as a friend or I love him differently it all comes back to that simple answer. Maybe it has no sense at all but for me it has, for friendship is a special kind of love.
You might think that I’m finding it as easy as ABC but its not. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress just thinking what I will do, will I still be a friend for him or I should forget him. Whatever choice I will make have a consequence, if I choose to be a friend for him, I will only be hurt and continually waiting and hoping but if I choose to let go or forget him, am I ready to bear the pain of not seeing him? Both decisions and choices will just only end up with me being hurt, but I realized that I’m so selfish to think o only of my self and not to think of what will he feels. What if he still needs me as a friend, will I turn my back on him? So I decided that, ok we will go back being friends again and it means I will be hurt but I said to my self it will fade away. I also said to my self that true friends never leave each other side. You can call me a fool but if I’m going to call myself, I’m just a friend. You might question me why do I choose it? Its because I love him and love doesn’t require to much answers you just love no matter how stupid you become, quite unfair but life is unfair love is unfair, we cant make it fair how much we wanted to, so just lived the unfair reality.
I also understand those people who would rather choose to totally forget the person they loved because that person may even hurt them more. Some relations doesn’t end well, and its getting hard for them to be friends again especially when they’ve experienced so much pain when they still together. There are people who just don’t want to hope and be continuously hurt so they just turn their back and let go.
Therefore, it is on our own hands to decide and whether decision we make, we should be ready for the consequences and we should never had regrets. Choose what will make you happy. Just listen to what you’re heart saying, and everything will fall to its proper place.
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