Why there are people who are fond of seeing the mistakes of other people yet they dont see their own mistakes? Why there are people who easily judge people and not trying to listen to the reasons and keeping their minds shut and believe only to what they know? Why there is discrimination among people when all of us is just equal ? Why there are lot of people dont know how to show respect each others identity and the way they want to live ther life? So many questions it seems but there are no exact answers.
You might wonder why i keep on asking these questions, the reason is that what my friends and me myself are facing right now...it seems that respect and acceptance is really hard to get..
im a chubby girl and i admit that im a bit bigger than any girl but it really doesn't matter as long as i had my confidence and my friends who accept me for who i really am but it seems that there are people who are just fond of critisizing other people. Im not saying that im not open to those comments but im not foolish not to know that they only said those things to make fun of me and ashamed me in front of other people, they say those things not to encourage me to make myself better but only to make me feel worst of myself and be insecure. To be honest these people really stir the insecurities out of me and they make my confidence level low, but i realized why sholud i keep on listening and be affected to what they are saying, every person has their own identity and it should be respected.it is only in my own hands how to improve myself and noone can dictate what should i do especially if they dont have the right.They are saying that they are only being frank..but frankness is not a license to say whatever you want, whenever you want, and wherever you want, it is only their excused to make fun of other people and proved to that person that he/she is much better.Yes, it is their right to say whatever they want but if they will only say foolish things better not to say it at all because people dont give a damn of what they are saying, it will just make them stupid.
If you will ask me if i had plans of improving myself...yes, i have plans but i dont take it so fast..its really pressuring me whenever they are saying you should do this and you should do that...give me break!..its not that easy, its quite hard for me ok.. so show a liitle respect ok..
Note: This for some people out there who really hate me eventhoughthey dont know me...I dont generalize because there are also some of my friends who are telling me to improve myself and its ok for me because I know that their intentions are good and for the better
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